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VOLUNTEER REQUIREMENTS
Protecting God's Children
Diocesan-Mandated Training Required for All Volunteers
All volunteers age 18 and older who wish to serve in any ministry at Saint Lawrence Parish are required to complete the Diocesan-mandated Protecting God's Children Awareness Training Program. This requirement is established by the Diocese of Bridgeport and must be fulfilled before volunteer service begins.
Prayer & Spiritual Life
Lay Carmelites
Prayer, silence, and reflection centered on devotion to Our Lady of Mount Carmel.
Carmel Brown
carmbro394@sbcglobal.net
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Meets
2nd Saturday, 10am to noon, Parish Center
“Every Lay Carmelite is like a spark of love thrown into the forest of life: they must be able to enflame anyone who approaches them.”
— Lay Carmelite Rule, Chapter 11 #44
About the Community
Third Order Carmelites (TOC) are lay people who are 18 years or older. A candidate must be a Catholic fully participating in the sacramental life of the Church. They are called to live more deeply with their baptismal promises. The lay Carmelite follows the mission of Carmel (which is also the mission of the Church) which is to transform the secular world after the teachings of Jesus. This is accomplished through the Carmelite charism and dedication to prayer, community and service. Most important is to remember that being a lay Carmelite is not just a devotion added to life; it is a way of life—a vocation.
Practices
- To participate in the daily celebration of the Eucharist when possible
- To spend about ½ hour in meditation each day, reflecting on the Scriptures, using Lectio Divina, or some other appropriate method of personal/reflective prayer
- To pray the Liturgy of the Hours – Morning and Evening Prayer – in union with the Church throughout the world
- Spending some time doing spiritual reading each week
- To attend the monthly community meetings and other (periodic) community activities
- To wear the Brown Scapular daily as a sign of dedication to Mary, trust in her motherly protection, and as an expression of one’s commitment to live in allegiance to Christ by serving others.
History
The Carmelite way of life began in the Holy Land at the end of the 12th Century on Mount Carmel near a spring known as the ‘Fountain of Elijah’. The original Carmelites were hermits who asked the Patriarch of Jerusalem, St. Albert Avogadro for a formal rule around 1206.
The Carmelite brothers moved from Mount Carmel into Europe. Once settled as a mendicant order of the Church they welcomed lay people to join them. Blessed John Soreth, Prior General at the time, opened the way for others to be part of the Carmelite Order. With the Bull Cum Nulla issued by Pope Nicholas V on October 7, 1459, he established the second and third orders of Carmel.
Leadership
Secretary: Patricia DaSilva, Dasilva.patricia@gmail.com
Treasurer: Tina Spinelli
Provincial Office
Provincial Office of Lay Carmelites
PO Box 3079, Middletown, New York 10940
Phone: (845) 344-2474
Faith Builders
A scripture reflection group exploring the upcoming Sunday’s readings together.
Susan Rowan
msrow2729@yahoo.com
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Meets
Wednesdays, 9:30am to 11:00, Parish Center
“Ignorance of the Scriptures is ignorance of Christ”
— St. Jerome
About the Community
Would you like to enrich your experience at weekend Mass by engaging with the scriptures beforehand? Faith Builders offers a welcoming community where we explore the upcoming readings, uncover their broader meanings, and reflect on how they resonate in our daily lives. We also gain additional insights through the teachings of Jeff Cavins, whose commentary helps illuminate the timeless relevance of the readings. While scriptures themselves remain unchanged, our understanding evolves, allowing each reading to reveal new insights every time we approach them.
By incorporating this into your weekly routine, you will approach Mass with a deeper comprehension of the scriptures, fostering more attentive participation, meaningful prayer, and a greater spiritual connection to the Eucharist. Engaging with the readings beforehand transforms your worship into a richer, more reflective experience.
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Leadership
Susan Rowan msrow2729@yahoo.com
Worship & Liturgical
Adult Choir
Leading music ministry at Sunday Mass, under the direction of Cantor and Music Director Jennifer Haddon.
Jennifer Haddon
jenniferdemilohaddon@gmail.com
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Jennifer Haddon 203-225-9231 or 203-640-7242 email: jenniferdemilohaddon@gmail.com
Altar Servers
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Rectory Office
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Ushers
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Service & Outreach
Merton House
Serving lunch once a month to our neighbors at the Thomas Merton Center in Bridgeport.
Mark Rowan
markrowan2729@gmail.com
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Meets
Wednesdays, 9am to 1pm, Thomas Merton Center, Bridgeport
About the Community
You’ll be placed on a team and serve once a month. If you have a few hours to spare, your hands and your smile can make a real difference to our neighbors in need.
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Leadership
Mark Rowan, markrowan2729@gmail.com
Bereavement Ministry
Support and companionship for parishioners grieving the loss of a loved one, offered in a caring, compassionate environment.
Mickie Hope
gemihope1003@gmail.com
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Meets
2nd Sunday of the month, 11am, Religious Education Office. In addition to the Support Group meetings and additional one-on-one assistance, special events are held with a speaker.
About the Community
Today I am grateful for all those things that are missing in my life because their absence reminds me of how blessed I am to have had them all.
Sends letters of condolence and helpful materials to grieving families, offers support between meetings including one-on-one assistance, and keeps a full lending library of bereavement books. In between meetings, families may call for help.
Practices
- support to the bereaved family members of St. Lawrence Parish who have lost loved ones. This will be accomplished in a caring, compassionate environment.
- assistance upon request with daily activities
- the vision of the Bereavement Ministry is to continue expanding the services as our ministry grows in a spiritual, caring and social atmosphere.
- Letters of condolence, along with a packet of helpful bereavement material, are sent out to each family that has lost a loved one.
- In between meetings, families may call for help.
- A full library of bereavement books is available.
Leadership
Also home to Transitions, a grief support group; contact Jim Linden at 203-561-3410 or Mickie Hope 203-929-8499.
Gardening Angels
Volunteers who plant, beautify, and maintain the gardens across the parish grounds, founded in 2001 to give back to the community.
Jeanette Gonos
homedrome1@juno.com
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Meets
Saturday mornings, 10:30 to 1:00, in Spring; Tuesday evenings, 6:30 to 8:30, in Summer; plus flexible hours
About the Community
Everyone is welcome to join and learn about gardening and horticulture. Youth and adult community service hours are available. The group has helped design and build gardens throughout Shelton, including the town’s first annual cutting garden, a 100 x 30 plot on open space at the dog park, designed and built in 2012.
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History
Founded in 2001, in the spirit of memorializing and giving back to our community, our volunteers plant, beautify and maintain the expansive gardens landscapes throughout the parish grounds.
Leadership
Jeanette Gonos, homedrome1@juno.com Phone: 203-929-6798
Respect Life
Upholding the dignity of human life from conception to natural death through prayer, education, and outreach.
Linda Kosko
lkosko@ymail.com
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Phone: 203-913-4661
Faith Formation & Family
Adult Faith Formation
Parishioners of St. Lawrence and neighboring parishes gather each Fall and Spring to grow in their faith through the study of Scripture, the Sacraments, the Mass, Mary, prayer, and Christian spirituality, led by clergy and lay presenters.
Parish Office
stlawrpar1@aol.com
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Meets
8-week program, Monday mornings after 9am Mass and Tuesday evenings
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Parish Life & Community
Msgr. Joseph Fitzgerald K of C Council 14014
A fraternal society of Catholic men, 18 and older, dedicated to charity, unity, and fraternity, supporting both the parish and the wider community.
Carlos Perez
carlosperez@remax.net
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Meets
The 3rd Thursday of the Month at 7:00 pm in the Knights Hall.
About the Community
Council 14014
The Knights of Columbus is a Fraternal benefit society based on the principles of charity, unity and fraternity. The Knights are Catholic men, 18 years of age and older, who are committed to making their community a better place, while supporting their church.
Council 14014 is actively involved in raising funds to support local charities, such as Special Olympics, Spooner House, Merton House, Homes for the Brave, St. Catherine's Academy, Msgr. Potter's Brazilian Mission, St. Vincent DePaul, and many other local charities.
Some of the events we sponsor each year include pancake breakfasts, dinner dances, special olympics, an Easter Egg Hunt, free throw contest, poster contest, Knight's Grill (Suburban League Basketball).
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History
The Knights of Columbus began in 1882 at St Mary’s Church in New Haven, Connecticut, when Father Michael J. McGivney founded a fraternal society to support Catholic families, especially widows and orphans. It took the name “Knights of Columbus” to express both Catholic faith and American patriotism and has grown into an international organization of Catholic men, guided by the principles of charity, unity, fraternity, and patriotism, serving parishes and communities around the world.
Leadership
Grand Knight: Derrick Champagne
Deputy Grand Knight: Carlos Perez
Financial Secretary: Brian Smith
Treasurer: Greg Marty
Trustees: Tony Minopoli, Ben McGorty, Jeff Sninsky
Contact:
Carlos Perez
203-395-8086 or carlosperez@remax.net
Women of St. Lawrence
A parish women's group that meets monthly to build community, enrich the spiritual life of the parish, and serve those in need through outreach.
Millie DeFeo
madelf1@aol.com
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Meets
1st Thursday of the month, 7pm, September through June
About the Community
Activities include guest speakers, an annual Communion Breakfast, May Crowning, spiritual evenings, and donation drives for school supplies, Easter baskets, food, and clothing, along with baby showers for families in need. All women of the parish are welcome.
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Leadership
Phone: 203-929-0527
Offertory Counters
Volunteers who count and record the weekly parish collection.
Greg Marty
203-382-3784
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